Ok now... once again… 2weeks had passed… since my last entry. Reason?? Due to someone whom is very important to me being hospitalize. Let me do a belief summary of the 2 week.
28th April 2008 Monday [A night of surprise and worries]
Normal working day…the only thing different was that played basketball with WY today after work at the park near my house. Wanted to see where his standard is and see what can be done... quite a fun session. After basketball went home bath b4 sending him home.
Dad and mum were leaving the house too when I was about to left the house with WY also... dad told me grandma was sick (food poisoning) and ask me go down visit her when I am free... Of course... told him I will.
While sending WY back home... drops by shell to pump petrol... saw this Ferrari model size 1:16. It really attracted me toward it. Despite the price tag saying $89.90, I bought the model. COOL!!! I really liked it.
After sending WY home... Went home put down my stuff b4 meeting Wz, Ww and Lou (joined us after work). Around 11+pm… Saw dad’s miss call and called back… Dad said they brought grandma to NUH to see doctor, told me not to worry and reminded me to go home early as next day there’s work. Thinking that it’s just usual normal food poisoning… I continued with Wz they all until 1am+ b4 calling to check if they had left NUH. As dad never answers my call, I assumed they either on the way home or back at grandma’s house. So headed home wash up and get myself ready to bed. Just when I was about to fall asleep around 3am. My hand phone rang... It was cousin Ah Bing. Told me grandma was admitted to ICU (Intensive Care Unit). As soon as the call ended, immediately jumped of my bed to change and rushed down to my bike to NUH.
Was still in shock while riding... keep asking myself “Didn’t they said it’s just food poisoning… how come becoming so serious??” Speeded down along pie at 140km half way bike dies off… but managed to start the engine again and continue heading for HUH.
Went straight to ER after parking my bike. Meet Up with mum and relative who explained to me what happened… My grandma was diagnosed with kidney failure… Critical and need to operate in 2hrs time… Mum told me dad cried earlier on but went back to grandma’s house to rest to alone for awhile. Wanted to call Jun to tell her what happened… but as usual can’t get her as she always off her phone while sleeping. Mind in a mess… just like everyone.
29th April 2008. Tuesday [Fighting back my tears]
Messaged Siti earlier on told her that I might need to take leave due to the situation... but in the end decided to go back and work 1st as still don’t know when the operation will take place as grandma’s blood still not stable yet.
Back at work... didn’t really have the energy as whole night had not sleep. Plus mood really down. Applied 1/2day afternoon leave. While telling Siti the reason… can’t really hold back my tears... Excused myself to the toilet to calm myself down before going back to the office.
Around 10.45am. My phone rang… It was from cousin Yin Jie. Told me come hospital straight as Grandma may not be able to make it and doctor advice all relative to go down and see her… told Siti I have to leave although it not 12noon yet.. Being understand, she told me to go ahead and she will cover for me. Really grateful toward her.
Went to the ICU once I reached. Most of the really were there. Learnt from them that during the operation… they realized a tumor in her large intestine and it was there for quite sometimes but none of use knew it… her kidney were not functioning and her lung and heart were very weak… heart stopped once during the operation. Went in to see her… she was lying on the bed with all the tubes in her. The strong and loud voice grandma. Can’t believe she is in this state now… can’t hold back my tears... went to the toilet and let out my emotional side… keep thinking… Sat when I visited her... she was still alright and talking as normal…but now…
Jun called and talked awhile on the phone... can’t hold back my tears while telling her… she reached in the evening to see grandma after her tuition.
Asked dad if he wanted to let sis know about it. At 1st he rejected the idea as wanted to let her concentrate on her studies… But later in the afternoon changed his mind asked me to get sister to fly back from Aus.
Called sis on her Singtel line but she didn’t pick up. So called Yongxian for her Aus no. and called her… Told her what happened and she can hardly react. Only when called again to inform us she will be taking the night flight and reaches Singapore morning 5+am… Then she started crying… made me cried in the end again… I can really understand how she feel… so far away and hardly anything she can do…She is suppose to be at Gold Coast enjoying her short break...she was looking forward to it so much but now have to cancel due to families…
30th April 2008 Wednesday [A Slight improvement and a Chelsea’s fan night]
Woke up from bed and saw sis. She’s back. She went straight to NUH once touched down in Singapore. Updated me that when she reached hospital… grandma was conscious and able to replied to her by nodding her head and opened her eye... But after that put under drug to stay semi conscious only as she still in pain from the operation. Was glad to hear that... sms-ed Jun to tell her and she was glad for grandma too... Really haven’t been nice to Jun since the incident happened… Really sorry toward her… she was always so nice & tolerance toward me when I was in the mood. Really love her a lot.
Went back to NUH after she unpacked her stuff and really saw much more improvement. Grandma would move her legs at times to find the comfortable position. She now able to hear what we say but not really able to react due to the drugs. Together with Yong Xian, Sis and I… sent Jun to her tuition place before we went to Singapore pools to buy some 4D. Was relief that there’s improvement… so when WW they all asked me out at night to watch soccer... Went home change and took a cab down as Ww will send me home.
Met them around 11.30pm at Cineleisure. Lou went and bought Harold and Kumar movie tickets for 1.30am show… was so puzzled as we supposed to watch soccer at 3am. Only then know kana conned by them to come down… if I knew earlier I would had stay home to watch soccer. Played some LAN games at E2 Max before watching the movie. The movie turned out to be excellent. Had a good time laughing…a good break away from all the tension these few days. After the movie managed to catch the 2nd half of champion league Semi clash between Chelsea Vs Liverpool. Chelsea really played with style... won 3-2 in extra time. After that went home rest for another day.
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